A week ago we got back from five days away. Two of the five days involved driving which I had been dreading because of the children in the backseat, but a portable dvd player works wonders.

It was quite a lovely drive scenery wise the closer we got to our destination, ie Apollo Bay in Victoria. It was also quite wet in parts. This photo was taken just out of Colac as we were driving, and no, I wasn’t driving while snapping a photo.

The rain soon cleared and we had the drive through the Otway Ranges down to Apollo Bay. I’ve never been there before and it’s a beautiful spot with the hills as a backdrop to the ocean.

We had a house just near Apollo Bay with a view to the ocean. The moon treated us to its fullness on the second night. It was quite spectacular.

The main reason we had been invited along was to accompany our friends because one of them was riding in the Otway Odyssey, a 100km mountain bike race through the Otway Ranges.

The weather wasn’t very kind to the bike riders and while we waited at the finishing line for him we could see on the other riders how muddy it had been along the ride. The people below are waiting in line, in the rain, to get their bikes washed because the mud’s caked on.

The bike race was on the Saturday which left us one full day to do some sightseeing. We went back into the Otway Ranges to the Otway Fly Treetop Adventures for a look around the forest.

Wouldn’t you know it? The forest is so ancient that there are dinosaurs still living there. The kids couldn’t believe it.

The photo below was taken at the top of the viewing platform, one of those get up to the top via the spiral staircase ones. It swayed a bit in the wind too. JJ climbed up it two or three times. I didn’t mind because the more exercise he does the more he might wear himself out.

In a rainforest there’s going to be fungi.

And some small life.

Unfortunately Monday came around all too quickly and before we knew it we were packed up and in the cars heading back to Adelaide. We went via the Twelve Apostles, or what’s left of the twelve. It was quite windy and quite cool.

And you don’t want to ignore the signs because you might DIE.

I like going away on holidays and I also really like getting back to my own bed and my own kitchen, albeit a kitchen with a rogue mouse in it.

It’s a Monday after a really good weekend. This Monday is bearable because I’ve got the day off work and at the moment I’m busy uploading some photos to Facebook and Flickr.

It’s silly season here as it is in most places. Everyone must have an end of year show right now so there’s lots of things happening. The Surfer had his work show on the weekend and it was really good. One of his colleagues has a houseboat business so he and I went to the houseboat for the day and night. Luckily my sister was able to look after JJ so we had some child-free time which was just great.

I haven’t met many of his colleagues before but it ended up being really good fun. Everyone was friendly and relaxed and we all had a good time. Eight of us ended up staying on the boat and it was luxury. It’s more modern than my house in its fittings, eg every bedroom had an ensuite. There were flat screen tvs in all the rooms and a bit plasma in the lounge. Upstairs was a bar and a spa. You could live on the boat quite easily. It even has solar panels to generate its own electricity.

It was pretty windy but we did go for a little cruise up the river.

In the photo per day tradition, I got someone to take a photo of me (below) and The Surfer.

We get on pretty well when we get away together which bodes well. In my last longer term relationship my boyfriend was pretty selfish and didn’t really consider my feelings or my opinions when trying to make decisions. I knew after that holiday that I should have called it quits but I didn’t and we lasted another three years or so. Live and learn ey?

Unfortunately we were only able to have one night but we made the most of it and must try to to it again.

Nearly one whole month ago we went away for the long weekend camping. It’s pretty luxurious sleeping in a bed in a camper trailer with a fairly dark canvas even though we had to set it up in the dark.

Fortunately once we got the trailer setup we were able to sit down and relax with a few drinks. Because we’d arrived late though, most people had done their drinking and were pretty much ready for bed except for one friend who didn’t want to miss out on anything and we tried escorting her to her tent a few times before I practically pushed her in there and told her to go to bed.

The next morning we had a leisurely breakfast and then got in the car to go and find some surf. We did find some surf indeed and some other creatures besides humans enjoyed it along with us.

I know I showed this photo in a previous post but it’s SO worth showing again.

Here’s some more that you didn’t see.

If the water hadn’t been so cold I would have loved to swim out to them but I was only able to go in, dive under a wave and get back out.

After a morning at the beach we came back to the campsite and put our chairs near the shoreline to sit and watch the scenery and practise the ukuleles. We ended up being the campfire entertainment for the two evenings we were there. I must practise our repertoire a bit more so I don’t have to get someone to hold up the sheet music and shine a light on it. But we were appreciated and I had a heap of fun doing it.

While we were practising near the beach a pelican swam closer and closer to us and got out the water and walked up the beach a little bit toward us. I said to The Surfer that he must have heard us playing and wanted to investigate. I’m sure that’s the reason why!

The great thing about camping in cooler weather is being able to have a campfire. In fact because there were so many of us we had two campfires amongst us. My son acquainted himself with the people sitting around the other campfire and even had some dessert they cooked using their camp ovens. Even though these people were part of our group, I didn’t know them but they didn’t seem to mind that he adopted them. I did talk to a couple of them the next day to thank them for feeding my son.

I even managed to get a couple of obligatory sunset photos.

On Sunday night we went to bed and not long after I had to make a dash for the toilet and for the rest of the night I had horrible stomach cramps. On the Monday I felt like I had a really really bad hangover, even though it wasn’t a hangover. Because I felt so woeful The Surfer had to pack up the camp pretty much by himself. I thought I might have had food poisoning but I think it was a virus. Unfortunately it wasn’t a 24 hour virus and it turned into bronchitis so I ended up being sick for two weeks. At least it didn’t happen until we were about to leave and up until I got sick I had a really good time.

It’s nearly three months since we arrived home from Bali. I remember that Monday morning. It was cold. I hadn’t slept at all the night before on the plane. I had horrible holiday comedown and when I went to do my grocery shop to get food for the week I had to keep wiping the tears away from my eyes.

Below are the posts I wrote after we got back from Bali – all in the one spot.

Bali – the shopping

Bali – the food

Bali – transport

Bali – the beginning

Now it’s just a memory but people keep throwing it in my face by going to Bali. Why is it that so many people I know have just been or are going very soon?

When I found out I had a new job I wanted to have a week off between the old and the new jobs to mentally prepare myself and rather than hang around home and do the routine stuff here like school, I decided to go somewhere.

Melbourne is relatively close to here if you fly so I spent some time on the internet booking cheap flights and a hotel room to stay in that was central. Both were achieved and off we went.

I really like Melbourne and was looking forward to spending some mother/son time together. We arrived at the hotel mid-afternoon so just spent the rest of the afternoon walking around the place, finishing up with a hot chocolate for him, coffee for me and a cake to share. This became a daily habit and I must say that more cafe’s should get marshmallows on hand to put in their hot chocolates. The only places that had marshmallows were the chocolate specialty places that there seem to be a lot of in the city centre of Melbourne.

We spent the next day at the Melbourne Museum, starting off with the Titanic artefact exhibition. I’ll do another post on that later but for now, we really enjoyed it. I was also really impressed with the museum. It was modern and interesting and you could easily spend a whole day there. We weren’t too far off by a whole day’s worth by the time we went through the Titanic exhibition, and had a look around at other exhibitions in the museum. We finished off by going to the Imax to see the Titanic artefact diving film that James Cameron made.

After a shaky start to the next day – mother/son clash stuff – we made it to the Tim Burton exhibition in Federation Square. I didn’t take any photos in the exhibition itself. I stood real close to Johnny Depp’s Mad Hatter costume and imagined him standing there actually wearing it. I just saw the film a few days beforehand and I think he’s a fantastic actor and played a really good Mad Hatter.

I hadn’t known much about Tim Burton’s early career so it was really interesting to read all about it. While I was off soaking in all the drawings and film bits and pieces JJ sat down and watched Hansel and Gretel, a weird Tim Burton version of the story. There were other films showing also, or bits and pieces from various films. There was also an activity room where you could do a drawing and pin it up on the pinboard if you wanted. Both JJ and I did a drawing – I must scan and share as we took them home.

Like the museum, there were other exhibitions that we hung around and had a look at too.

JJ really wanted to visit the aquarium so off we went. The first thing you see is a bunch of penguins in a manmade icy environment. Even though all animals in zoos and aquariums don’t have heaps of space to roam around in I felt the most sorry for the penguins for some reason.

However, there were plenty of photo opportunities and it gave JJ an opportunity to find more out about sea and water creatures.

We visited a place I’d been to on one of my last visits to Melbourne where I really liked the food. JJ ordered a ham and cheese toasted sandwich – not very adventurous but I’d rather he eat something than not.

I snuck this photo of him in while he was stretching his legs out in the laneway.

All in all we had a good trip together and our three days went pretty quickly. We flew with one of those budget airlines with only carry on baggage allowed and shock of shocks they weighed it on our way through to the gate. Mine was three kilos overweight so I had to redistribute. It didn’t help that my DSLR camera was in the bag so that pretty much got it down.

We had a day to unwind before heading off for a weekend school excursion in the Riverland. So it really wasn’t a relaxing week leading up to my new job but fulfilling nontheless.

View the rest of the photos here.

Before I went to Bali I didn’t envisage myself being an avid shopper and while I didn’t go over the top, I did indulge. After all, old habits die hard. The first shopping expedition I went on I didn’t buy ONE thing for myself. I got some clothes for my son and a couple of t-shirts for The Surfer upon his request as he’d not taken many clothes with him and he was watching the children.

As we were staying near Kuta we went to the Discovery shopping centre opposite Waterbom Park and they had sales on in a department store and on my mental shopping list were summer clothes for JJ as I know that he hasn’t got many things that will fit him for our next summer. Consequently I hadn’t brought many clothes over for him so it was a case of having to buy stuff for him. I got a couple of pairs of shorts and a couple of t-shirts for the equivalent of about $10 Australian each and as they were good quality clothes I was pretty happy with that.

While on the department store tangent I ended up buying three pairs of bras in another place. Bra shopping there compared to here is quite different. For a start, they have absolutely loads of stock and they have loads of stock that was on special. As I like buying things on special here the choice of stock is nearly always limited and my size in bras just isn’t around. The other thing was that there were people to help dig out the correct size for me, they didn’t fit me, but at least I had lots of things to try on. So I have three brand spanking new pairs of bras and let me tell you that trying things on in a warm dressing room when you’re a bit sweaty is hard work.

I didn’t bother with trying to buy other clothes because of the sizes. I’m an average sized Australian woman, about a 12-16 depending on what the item or brand is, and Balinese women are a lot more petite so clothes are catered more for them. And really, I have a pile of skirts and tops in my wardrobes and drawers at home – do I really need more?

It took me a couple of days to even contemplate doing the haggling thing. I’ve done it before in Israel and India but that was a long time ago so I had to build up mentally for it. I had a massage on the beach one day and in addition to people massaging, there’s people trying to sell you stuff too. On the beach near our hotel the women all wore caps with their name on it. They’d bend down before me and tell me their name and ask me my name so they could try and strike a rapport with me. If they’d had their way they would have been talking to me while I had my massage but I asked that I not be disturbed during it and I would be more than happy to talk business after the massage.

It’s all very well trying to do business with one person at a time but everyone wants to sell you some stuff so while you’re trying to look at one lot of things there’s someone else there asking you to look at their items. It can get very confusing and I wonder if that’s not their ploy?

I loved this sign. Not only did it have my name, the shop has set prices and No Bullshit.

I enjoyed the whole process of haggling the few times I did it in Bali. You choose your items and then you ask how much. They always give you an inflated price and you counter with a really low price. They fall about the floor laughing at your first offer and they come down a bit from their original price and so on and so forth. This process can take a while so you want to be pretty sure you actually want the stuff you’re haggling for. But it’s all done in good humour and usually everyone walks away happy at the end.

On one of our last days we were in Kuta and we’d all separated but I wanted to buy some sarongs and things as presents and I thought buying in bulk would be the go so I called The Surfer and arranged to meet up with him. We walked down to Kuta Centre and JJ was ahead of me holding a kite we’d just bought. A man came out of a shop and took JJ’s hand and took him inside the shop. I didn’t freak out as I might have in another place and when I caught up with him the man was trying to sell JJ some string for the kite. I couldn’t be bothered buying string when  I knew we could get it at home so told him I wasn’t interested. The whole time were at Kuta Centre this man was still trying to sell me string.

The Surfer was already at a shop and had made his purchases. When he told me how much he’d paid I thought he’d paid way too much but hey, it’s his money. However I had hoped we could do a deal with my purchases as well. I picked out some sarongs, some bags and a dress. A dress that one of the stallholders told me would fit a large woman because it was stretchy. Not a very good salesman as I could have been very offended by this but he obviously didn’t realise that western woman can be a bit funny about their size. I ended up settling on a price and at least at this stage they’d offered me a chair and some water so I was comfortable. Maybe that’s what they do to get more money from you!

A couple of days later I went with The Surfer to a beach stall so he could buy a couple more things and I’m sure that if I wasn’t there he would have paid a lot more. As it was, the stallholder chucked in a couple of extra things so we probably still paid a good price. It was probably the best business she did all day. It would be a lonely existence in a little hut on the beach and quite windy too as we were down near Nusa Dua and it was constantly windy there.

I had some room to spare in my suitcase at the end of the trip so obviously I didn’t go overboard but I was pretty happy with my purchases, and I even managed to buy some presents for people.